Focus On Yourself And Not Others? (One of the Best Speeches Ever) ft.

Focus On Yourself And Not Others ? (One of the Best Speeches Ever) ft. Eternal Explorer Where you put your focus depends upon on what you believe makes you feel happy and safe. If you believe that your happiness and safety come from others liking you, connecting with you, approving of you, loving you, or spending time with you, then your focus is likely to be on others.