How to Become a More Interesting Person
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We tend to evaluate people
We tend to evaluate people on how interesting they are. But we are thereby liable to miss a more acute and relevant issue: how interesting does a given person make us feel? Why in the company of some do our minds quickly fill with stories, while around others, we experience ourselves as blank, dull and close to inert?
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“We start with an unusual observation: there is a huge variance in how much we feel we have to say for ourselves around some people compared to around others; certain people make us feel boring, others do not. We tend to evaluate people on how interesting they are. But we are thereby liable to miss a more acute and relevant issue: how interesting does a given person make us feel? Why in the company of some do our minds quickly fill with stories, while around others, we experience ourselves as blank, dull and close to inert. Why – when some people ask – ‘so what have you been up to lately?’ do we positively brim with a multitude of topics, whereas with others, outwardly equally polite, do we struggle to remember that we have ever even existed?..."
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Produced in collaboration with:
Deanca Rensyta
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Title animation produced in collaboration with:
Graeme Probert
www.gpmotion.co.uk
FURTHER READING
You can read more on this and other subjects here:
https://9qq0.short.gy/fEFTlw
“We start with an unusual observation: there is a huge variance in how much we feel we have to say for ourselves around some people compared to around others; certain people make us feel boring, others do not. We tend to evaluate people on how interesting they are. But we are thereby liable to miss a more acute and relevant issue: how interesting does a given person make us feel? Why in the company of some do our minds quickly fill with stories, while around others, we experience ourselves as blank, dull and close to inert. Why – when some people ask – ‘so what have you been up to lately?’ do we positively brim with a multitude of topics, whereas with others, outwardly equally polite, do we struggle to remember that we have ever even existed?..."
MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE
Watch more films on SELF in our playlist:
http://bit.ly/TSOLself
SOCIAL MEDIA
Feel free to follow us at the links below:
Facebook: Facebook: theschooloflifelondon
X: Twitter: TheSchoolOfLife
Instagram: Instagram: theschooloflifelondon
LinkedIn: LinkedIn: the-school-of-life-for-business
CREDITS
Produced in collaboration with:
Deanca Rensyta
https://www.deancarensyta.com/
Title animation produced in collaboration with:
Graeme Probert
www.gpmotion.co.uk
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